Deciding on a location for your wedding is one of the more important decisions you’ll make since many other details will revolve around your venue. If you’ve dreamed about your wedding day since childhood, the prospect of pinning down the nitty-gritty details of your dream can be overwhelming. After all, it’s hard for the reality of a wedding venue to live up to the vision set in your mind. But with a little planning and ingenuity, you can find a venue that helps you achieve your dreams while still honoring the reality of your budget.
Envision Your Ideal Wedding
The process of shopping for a venue can be overwhelming, particularly if you don’t enjoy listening to sales pitches. Before you take the plunge and begin visiting venues in person, ask yourself what the perfect wedding day looks like to you – and what you can leave by the wayside. Some things to consider include:
- The size of your wedding party and whether they’ll have enough room to stand by you while you take your vows
- Whether you want an indoor or outdoor wedding
- Whether your wedding will be religious or secular
- What you want the aisle you walk down to look like
- How much room you’ll need for guests
- Your style: do you want a traditional wedding or more casual? Are you bold and edgy or do you prefer a more rustic feel? Not every venue is conducive to every style, so you’ll need an idea of your decorations and ceremony structure when you visit the venue.
Honor Your Unique Personalities
There’s no reason your wedding has to follow any predetermined plan or replicate someone else’s. Instead, take some time to consider what makes the two of you unique as a couple. If you’re outdoorsy, why not take advantage of Colorado’s extended ski season and get married at a resort such as Keystone Resort. Love a crowd and hate the stress of a traditional wedding? Loveland Ski Area holds an annual group wedding for dozens of couples who are eager to take the plunge in the chilly mountains. If you want to steer clear of the cold and channel your inner princess, try a wedding at a luxurious property such as Silverthorne Pavilion or Lionscrest Manor.
No matter what venue you choose, you’ll need to evaluate whether it complements or stifles your personality. Be sure to ask the venue coordinator whether he or she can accommodate your needs before you waste time taking a tour or paying a deposit. If you’re considering a unique wedding theme, we’ve included some tips to help you decide if a unique wedding is for you.
Consider the Weather
You might have dreams of walking down the aisle during a balmy summer day as floral aromas waft through the air. But the weather can be a huge liability, even if you’re getting married indoors. Ensure that the venue you choose has a backup plan for outdoor weddings. If an indoor alternative is not an available, make sure the venue provides another option, such as a pavilion large enough to accommodate your entire wedding party and all of your guests.
If you’re getting married inside the elements aren’t as big of a concern, but you should consider the effects rain or snow can have on transportation. A mountaintop wedding can keep guests away if the weather is bad, and if you have to walk a long distance from the parking lot to the wedding venue, your lovely hair and elegant dress could be ruined in no time at all. When you visit the venue, ask about contingency plans and weigh whether you’ll be able to navigate the venue if the weather is uncooperative.
Look at Package Deals
Some couples love the creativity involved in planning every minute detail of their wedding, but others grow to loathe it. If you don’t enjoy endlessly combing through Pinterest boards or making crafts, you might be happier to delegate basic wedding duties to the venue itself. A variety of wedding venues in Colorado – including Beaver Creek Hyatt, Seawell Ballroom and Garden of the Gods Club — provide all-inclusive packages that include food and decorations. Some venues may even offer lodging to both you and your guests.
Review Venue Policies
You’ve always heard that you need to read a contract before you sign it, but in your haste to walk (or run!) down the aisle, don’t skip this vital step. Your wedding venue is not under any obligation to tell you each and every policy. Review the contract carefully to see if you can live with it. Consider the following:
- How long you can be at the venue
- The cost of extra guests
- Whether the venue offers a wedding planner or any other forms of support
- Whether the venue has restrictions such as which DJ or photographer you can hire
- How much time you’ll have to prepare for the wedding beforehand, and whether you’ll have a private room to get ready
- Whether the venue provides catering services.
Practical Matters
Before you fall in love with a venue, you need to carefully evaluate whether it can accommodate you needs. Be sure to examine the following:
- Where you’ll be getting ready and whether you’re happy with this location. Be sure to find out how early you can show up to get ready.
- Whether you’ll need transportation to a reception site. Some couples prefer venues that offer both reception and ceremony locations on-site.
- Whether you’ll need extra space for a cocktail hour, a dessert area, or even creative activities such as roasting marshmallows.
- Access to electricity if you’re outside, and the location of electrical outlets if you’re inside.
- Ceremony lighting. Try scheduling your visit to the venue around close to the time of your ceremony to see what the space will look like. Always consider the quality of your photos when envisioning your wedding. Good photographers can work around poor light but the better the light, the better the photos.
- Value of the view. An amazing view can take your breath away and your wallet too! Ask yourself how important is the view and if you can settle for a pretty setting without the spectacular view.
Narrowing down your venue list and reviewing legal documents might not seem like the most romantic undertaking. However, it’s a great opportunity for you and your fiancé to practice working together on logistical and financial plans – a skill you’ll need for the rest of your married lives!
Additional Resources & Information for Planning Your Wedding:
- Is a Unique Wedding Right for You?
- How to Choose a Wedding Photographer
- A Guide to Budgeting Your Wedding
- Styles of Wedding Photography
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when it comes to venue, I think couples should be more practical about it. Most couple overspend and regretted if afterwards.
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You have a point. I’m not sure if most couples overspend but I’m sure many do which is why we also have an article on fincancing a wedding here: http://elatiweddingphotography.com/2013/12/12/how-to-budget-wedding/ that includes a section on how to budget for a venue. Check it out!
My sister is getting married next year and she asked me to help her choose her wedding venue, so I appreciate the tips in this article. You make a great point that I should review the venue’s policies. This way I can make sure my sister can have the venue for the amount of time she needs and can bring her outside caterer before I book the venue.
I am glad that you mentioned that you should have backup plans in case the weather is not favorable during the reception. I will be getting married soon and we want to make sure that we have everything planned out just in case something goes wrong. We will be sure to find an indoor alternative if it starts to rain during the reception.
Thank you for stating that when looking for a wedding venue, you need to take into account how much room you’ll need for guests. My sister is getting married in 6 months and wants my help finding a wedding venue. I will definitely keep all of your great tips and information in mind when trying to help my sister find the perfect venue for her wedding.
Our best friend is getting married in a few months, and she asked my wife to help her find a wedding venue. We liked that you say to schedule appointments to visit different venues and to consider the quality of the photos. We will visit the venues we’ve been to start out. Thanks for the advice!
Thank you for your great tip on how before you fall in love with a wedding venue, you need to carefully evaluate whether it can accommodate your needs. I just got engaged, and needs to find a wedding venue as soon as possible, so I can start planning my wedding. I will definitely utilize all of your great tips and information when trying to plan the perfect wedding venue.
That’s a really cool idea to not try to follow anyone else, but consider what makes you two unique. One of my friends, who loves the outdoors, is looking for a wedding venue. I’ll have to look further into what it’s like to get married in the mountains.
I found it helpful when you said before you pick your venue to make sure it fits your needs. My fiance and I are thinking of choosing a venue sometime soon. Having a place that fits our needs would be ideal.
Before reading this, I hadn’t really considered whether I want an outdoor or indoor wedding. To me, one thing that would determine that is what activities could be done during the reception. I want to look at getting a photo booth.
It was really helpful when you said that you need to look at the contract to know the venue policies. My sister and her fiance are needing to find a venue for their wedding in the next couple of weeks, and they want to make sure that they can find the perfect place. I’ll make sure to pass this information along to them so they can know some more tips about finding a good venue.
Thank you for these tips on how to choose a wedding venue. My sister is about to get married and she asked every member of the family for our opinions regarding the venue. I believe that she should consider if the wedding would be something secular or religious first before deciding a venue. I should share this with her so she could properly decide.
My wedding will be this coming September, although I haven’t chosen any wedding venue yet. I’m glad you shared this; I’d keep in mind to review the venue policies first by check the cost of extra cost and ask whether the venue will provide a catering service. I’d also make sure to check the accessibility of the electricity outside the venue.
I loved that you mentioned one of the best considerations to choose a wedding venue that has a backup plan in case of bad weather. My husband and I are thinking about how to help my brother to plan his wedding, and we are looking for advice. I will let him know about your recommendations to choose the right wedding venue for him.
My friend is going to be getting married, but he’s not sure where to go for it. It makes sense that he might want to find the right venue. That seems like a good way to ensure that everything works out properly.